By Jack Crow
What makes a female tick? Why do they show such erratic behaviorand why can men not understand their way of thinking?
By Jack Crow
Many males complain that they don't understand females. Manyfemales complain that they don't understand males. We also havethe classic saying that men are from mars and women are fromvenus. Physically both sexes are very similar and are of thesame species so what is the problem?
After much reading on the subject, there seems to be a generalconsensus that there is a fundamental difference in the way menand women think. The bottom line is that men think with logicbut women think with emotions. This is why a male gets sofrustrated with a females sometimes irrational behavior.
Additionally, a female rarely says directly what she wants.Instead, she will use reverse psychology by asking the male aseries of questions until she gets the desired answer. If shedoes not get the desired answer she will take the huffs and givethe male 'the cold shoulder treatment'. She thinks this willalert the male that something is wrong and he will do what shewants..with out actually telling him |:(
Meanwhile the male is left dazed and confused as to whathappened. After which an argument is usually required to get tothe bottom of the problem. The whole situation could have beenavoided if the female had stated directly what she wanted in thefirst place.
When asked why they do this, most women will either answer thatthey don't realize they're doing this or they simply don't knowwhy. Many an argument could be avoided if what came out of agirls mouth was the same as the thought that was processed inher brain. But alas, it is not.
The classic example is a couple driving along a road. The femaleis hungry so she says to the male 'would you like to getsomething to eat?' The male replys 'no thanks I'm not hungry atthe minute' and keeps driving. She then takes it thick becauseshe didn't get the answer she was looking for. If she had said'I'm hungry, pull in at the next shop so I can get some food' hewould have done just that without question.
This all stems back to the fact that a female thinks with heremotions, not logic. This is why a male cannot understand afemales rational. Males cannot read between the lines. They arenot psychic or clairvoyant and they need everything spelled outto them in black and white.
Males often also complain that females are moody, have moodswings and show irrational or erratic behavior. This isespecially apparent in times of stress, emergencies orsignificant events where body chemicals and emotions are highlystimulated.
Because a females behavior is affected by her emotions and heremotions are affected by her body chemistry and her bodychemistry is in a state of flux from one month to the next, itcan only be expected that a female would exhibit erraticbehavior that is a mystery to a man whose body does not gothrough a constant monthly cycle of change. Re-read that lastparagraph guys if it went over your head.
Unfortunately this behavior is genetically built into a femalesbody. So sorry guys, you are going to have to live with it andwhile you can't get rid of it, you can at least be aware of itand try to understand it.
So in short, guys need to try to interpret better what a girl issaying, as it may not be exactly what she means. Girls need totry better to say exactly what they mean, if they want their guyto do what they want, without playing head games with them.Weather this is actually possible (as it goes against ourgenetic programming) is another case entirely.
Article Source: www.ArticlesBase.com
